Abigail

A picture from uncle Ben. Taken at Abigail's welcome party.

Trains with Animals

Big Sister Gifts

Charlotte has had a great week and so many family members and friends have given her big sister gifts which really helps her transition into accepting someone to share center stage with.  Most people get to be present when Charlotte opens her present but out out of town friends and family don't get that chance.

My sister in Texas sent us some brownies which (sorry Charlotte) we are treating as parent gifts.  Unfortunately my camera was low on batteries when Charlotte opened the present so I don't have any footage.  But the brownies are delicious and miraculously not all gone.

And actually as I type this, I realize the brownies will be a perfect treat to have next Friday.  When Happy and Emily were discharged on Tuesday there was some concern regarding the amount of weight Happy had lost since her birth (over 10% of her body weight).  And her bilirubin count has been high.  High enough to warrant three trips to the doctor for a blood draw, but never high enough to warrant home photo therapy.  So in the grand scheme of things, none of this is a big deal, but we are looking forward to not having to check in with a doctor every 24 to 48 hours to confirm that everything is fine (which it is).  Friday should mark this day.  Brownies for everyone!  Well except Happy.

Our friends in Colorado Jen and Steve also sent Charlotte and Happy some gifts.  Charlotte is in the habit of saying "Oh Steve" the same way we would say "oh for geez" and now she calls Steve "Oh Steve" which you can see in this video.  Anyway, as the video shows, she loved her gift.  

In fact, Charlotte liked her gifts so much she wanted to eat dinner with them.  This is a pretty big deal, as Charlotte usually pulls her chair next to my chair or Emily's so she can eat dinner next to one of us.  But when she got her gift, suddenly sitting next to Mommy or Daddy was not on her radar.

Charlotte Doesn't Like Brian

Charlotte is always very excited whenever Emily's uncle Brian comes over.  He was over recently to meet Happy and Charlotte was so psyched to see him.  In fact, when it comes to Brian, the only thing Charlotte likes more than hanging out with Brian is acting like she doesn't like him.  It is one of her greatest jokes.

One Week

Abigail is one week old and I am already guilty of treating her like a second child.  I haven't taken any pictures of her since we got home!  To be fair, most of the time I spend with her is on the couch with a Boppy - not exactly a great photo op.  Fortunately, Mike has taken lots of pictures.

Abigail's first bath at home

Our first week as a family of four has been good.  Charlotte is an awesome big sister.  Our first morning home, Charlotte said she wanted to eat her breakfast sitting next to Baby Happy so she set her plate down on the floor and sat with one hand rocking her cradle.    I think we are having some kind of new-baby-at-home-honeymoon-period.  I'm amazed by Charlotte's sweetness and eagerness to help, but I am sure there will be a day when she wants Baby Happy to go back to the hospital.  

I think this is my favorite picture of all time

Birth Story

So this is what "normal" is like.  A few weeks ago I remarked how strange it is to have everything going according to plan.  The whole time I was pregnant with Happy I was "waiting for the third shoe to drop" as my mom would say.  But it never did.  I had a nice, uneventful, 39 week pregnancy.  I felt pretty good almost the whole time (save for a weekend of debilitating chondritis of my ribs and just the general discomfort at the end from having a rather large baby inside).  

Saturday morning, we got up at 4 am so we could be at the hospital by 5 for surgery prep.   The actual procedure was as nice as could be. The atmosphere was totally different compared with Charlotte's birth, this time it was so relaxed and everyone was joking around.  One of the nurse anesthetists even offered to take some pictures.  

Our first picture with Abigail

Mike got take Abigail back to the recovery area and wait for me.  Then I got to hold Abigail and nurse her in the recovery area, which was sweet.  I felt so much better than after Charlotte's birth. With Charlotte I was so nervous, they gave me something to take the edge off and I was so drugged I barely remember anything.  This time, I was less nervous and I got to savor a lot more of the awesomeness of the experience.  

And So It Begins

In the spirit of the Spurs pending finals matchup against the Miami Heat, this video seemed fitting.  It appears that Tim Duncan just discovered he has arms.  Well, Charlotte has made a similar powerful yet simple discovery: the combination of "what's" with "that" yields amazing influence over conversations and parents.  I am happy to indulge her, even if I know she knows the answer.

It's only fair.  Whenever we look at books, we both know I am often asking her wh- questions that I know she knows the answer to.  So it stands to reason that she can, in turn, ask me "what's that" questions, even if we both know that she knows the answer.

Wow there was a lot of theory of mind going on in that last paragraph.  I'm glad I'm not reading this post to Charlotte out loud because then she'd ask me "what's that" about theory of mind, and I'd feel obligated to explain it to her in a way she'd understand.  In the meantime, you can imagine what the bulk of our conversations have been like lately.  A lot of her asking me "what's that" and a lot of me trying to find a short honest answer.

I had no problem working around these questions when I was working with kids Charlotte's age.  Funny how the rules change when it's your own flesh and blood, in terms of what you let go and work around and what you don't.